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Alec guides us and gives us signs

5/7/2012

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I was going to use this blog to express my feelings, to get them out. But I realized that would be very dark and extremely sad and hard for anyone to read. Alec's website is about Alec's love and so I decided to use this blog to share stories about Alec and to share with the many signs he gives us, he is amazing.
  I had been trying to find a counseler for Cassidy to see because she has alot of worries and fears and keeps her feelings in. I felt it would be very important to find someone who knows what she is feeling and understands. I searched online and found Jeff's Place, a girl who had lost her brother when she was younger started it. It has groups for kids who have lost a sibling, as well as for parents ( also for kids who have lost a parent). We decided to "give it a whirl". On our way there I was talking to Keith about how much Alec loved the Jimmy Fund, how much he loved everyone there, and how they treated him as their child not a patient. He saw them more than family, and they became family. Just thoughts in my head.  When we arived at Jeff's place, they had name tags out on a table, and Cassidy said look and pointed to a name tag with "Alec" on it written all scribbly like a little boy would do. Then as we were sitting, I see a nurse who works at the Jimmy Fund and The "H" ( Children's Hospital), she volunteers at Jeff's place. It was bittersweet to see her, mostly sweet and she understood that it would be hard to see her. It was just,--- I was just having these Jimmy Fund feelings and here is a nurse from there. Then a couple in our group spoke about their son who they lost, his name is "Alec". And we mentioned the name tag and we were told that their was alittle boy their attending another group and his name is "Alec".
 I know Alec guided us to this place and was making sure we knew it and that we knew he was with us. On the ride home as I was saying how amazing Alec is with all of these signs, the car in front of us had on their license plate the letters  "AB".
  Cassidy really liked it, and the Jimmy fund nurse was with her in group, I know it helped her to know she is not alone, and they made it fun, playing games and really being so kind and gentle.
 I felt Alec was smiling and so proud that we were doing this for Cassidy and for us.

We welcome your thoughts, stories about Alec, and signs he gives to you. Please share them with us, it will "brighten our day"
9 Comments
Nicole
5/8/2012 11:42:40 pm

What A perfect name for a website AMAZINGALEC. He is just that and more. Like it is said , He loved everyone. He REALLY loved some of us. HE REALLY REALLY LOVED LOVED his mom dad and sister. What a blessing , for so much love to be given and received. We love him, miss him . Alec had his daily, weekly monthly challenges, but always had a smile, a sweet gesture, a hug. He makes us smile. Love. Appreciate. I know Alec is still loving and caring for his precious family, helping them guiding them. I know he gave his Mom the strength to start this blog. Thats ALEC.... strong. What he gives now, is what he learned from his mom, dad, and sister . They showed him love and strength. In my opinion, They are all AMAZING and are all very special. Thanks Alec for making me one of your special friends. love to you all.

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Scott
5/16/2012 10:44:24 am

Awesome, awesome web site, I remember one day over the house with Alec, Keith, and myself just hanging out, when Alec got the idea to have me and keith touch tounges and kiss each other, he must of tryed for a good 20 minutes to make it happen, such a Goofball, always made me feel good, uncle scooch loves you pal!!!!!

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Auntie Holly
5/16/2012 11:05:22 am

hahahhaa Oh, I so wish I had been there for that one! Alec always knew how to make us laugh... that deep down, true belly laugh!

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Leslie
5/16/2012 10:44:36 am

Wow this is a great way to really get to know the boy I never got to meet but knew so much about. Seeing Laura at the shop once a month she would tell me funny Alec stories. I loved the story on how Alec would only let Laura wear her hair a certain way, I forget if it was that he did not like her with bangs or without. Another story I vaguely remember was about leaves in a tree, Laura I am hoping you can refresh my memory of this story. Love this website, I will check back often.

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Sophia
5/16/2012 10:52:33 am

I remember all the good moments I had when I would go to your house.He would always make me smile,especially when he would ask me to sing Tik Tok by Ke$ha.Alec is still in my heart too and I will ALWAYS remember him and his great BIG smile:)

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Scott
5/17/2012 10:01:03 am

Hi cas just wanted u to know how much I love your pitchers you have on your page, your an amazing little girl who was always and still is there being strong for her baby brother, just want u to know how proud I am of you and however much I love you , mom, dad and Alec. Uncle Scott!!!!

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cassidy link
5/18/2012 08:41:38 am

thank you uncle Scott love u
love Cass

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Darlene
5/17/2012 09:21:59 pm

This is such a great website. I myself feel lucky and privileged to have gotten the chance to fall in love with such a sweet little boy. Whenever I saw Alec he would always say " can you make your hair like a house?" One thing for sure, you never left Alec without a smile on your face and that was because he was surrounded by so much love from the best parents and big sister!

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Beth
5/17/2012 11:50:17 pm

Those were the most beautiful words I've ever read. Thank you for sharing your thoughts ,pictures and your family. Alec has always been a part of our daily life and has continued to be! I believe you are right that he was/is the most amazing little boy who taught us all how to love the simplest things in life and how to be silly and how to be brave. We miss him. Keith and Lau you too made the most loving and caring little boy who brought a smile to my face and I thank  you for that! He continues to be with you and in his  gentle ways of showing you how to live and love! Thank you again for I know was very difficult step sharing your memories and sharing Alec! Cassidy your page is great! Good job ! You are such a good sister and Mom, Dad and Alec are lucky to have such a wonderful daughter! 
I love you all....B

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